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Warum viele Männer es lieben, wenn sie ihn bemuttert

Sie kocht, putzt, räumt, alles mit einem Lächeln und er liebt es.

Sie kocht, putzt, räumt, alles mit einem Lächeln und er liebt es.

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Berlin.  Psychotherapeuten erleben immer mehr Paare, in denen sich die Partnerinnen zunehmend wie Mütter verhalten. Doch das sorgt für Probleme.

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„Loriot-Syndrom“: Wo liegt die Trennlinie zwischen Fürsorge und Bemutterung?

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Die Frau ist immer vernünftig, der Mann darf kindisch sein

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Noch mehr Beziehungsthemen:

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Partner müssen auch ihr eigenes Ich ausleben

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Warum sich bemutternde Frauen am Ende selbst schaden

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