Drogen

Wenn Eltern ihre drogenkranken Kinder rausschmeißen sollen

Oft stehen Eltern und Angehörige von Drogenabhängigen in der Behandlung und Therapie außen vor. „Das muss sich ändern“ fordert der Elternverband Arwed.

Oft stehen Eltern und Angehörige von Drogenabhängigen in der Behandlung und Therapie außen vor. „Das muss sich ändern“ fordert der Elternverband Arwed.

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Duisburg.  Der Elternverband Arwed fordert eine stärkere Einbeziehung Angehöriger in die Behandlung von Drogenabhängigen. Eltern sollen mehr Hilfe erhalten.

Manchmal sagt eine Umarmung mehr als alle Worte: Völlig fertig erzählt die Mutter Dr. Christiane Erbel, dass ihr alle sagen, sie solle ihren Sohn rausschmeißen. Freunde, Verwandte, selbst der Suchtberater. Aber es ist doch ihr Kind, das durch den jahrelangen Drogenkonsum körperlich ein Wrack geworden ist.

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„Wir sind nicht so eine kleine Gruppe“

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Niemand sagte dort: „Hör auf damit, lass das sein.“

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