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In Deutschland bleiben? Wie zerrissen Ukrainerinnen sind

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Die ukrainischen Schülerinnen Stanislava Sherchenko (16), Daria Chepiho (17) und Juliia Kopytko (18) erzählen von ihren Wünschen und Träumen als Geflüchtete in Deutschland.

Die ukrainischen Schülerinnen Stanislava Sherchenko (16), Daria Chepiho (17) und Juliia Kopytko (18) erzählen von ihren Wünschen und Träumen als Geflüchtete in Deutschland.

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Ennepetal.  Zwischen zwei Welten: Drei ukrainische Schülerinnen des Berufskollegs Ennepetal über ihre Zerrissenheit, ihre Hoffnungen und ihre Pläne.

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Überblick über die Möglichkeiten

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Ein Alptraum, als der Krieg auf einmal ausbrach

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„Hier in Deutschland ist alles anders, die Mentalität ist anders“

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Fremdeln mit dem Tempo des Lebens in Deutschland

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Angst um die Familie

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