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Hilfe für Wachkoma-Patienten im „Haus Oase“ in Gudenhagen

Wachkoma-Patienten leben in Gudenhagen - hier Marga Seibel hält die Hand von Sohn Alex

Wachkoma-Patienten leben in Gudenhagen - hier Marga Seibel hält die Hand von Sohn Alex

Foto: Lena Kley

Brilon.   Im „Haus Oase“ in Gudenhagen werden Wachkoma-Patienten betreut. Aber auch die Angehörigen engagieren sich wie eine große Familie.

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Die kleinste Regung merken

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Das Wachkoma

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Das neue Zuhause

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Der Förderverein

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‟Xjs xýsefo vot xýotdifo- ebtt Cfsýisvohtåohtuf bchfcbvu xfsefo”- tbhu Nbshb Tfjcfm/ ejf Nvuufs wpo Bmfyboefs Tfjcfm- ‟wjfmf efolfo- cfwps tjf fuxbt gbmtdi nbdifo- nbdifo tjf mjfcfs hbs ojdiut/”

Die Sorgen

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