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Jeder hat seinen Platz im Leben – es kann der falsche sein

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Bei der Familienaufstellung durchleben Stellvertreter die Gefühle von anderen.

Bei der Familienaufstellung durchleben Stellvertreter die Gefühle von anderen.

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Züschen.  Die Familienaufstellung kann dabei helfen, zwischenmenschliche Konflikte anzusprechen, sie offenzulegen und dem Betroffenen einen Blick von außen auf seine persönliche Situation zu ermögichen.

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