Warum das Eltern-Kind-Event in Herdringen so wichtig ist
Thora Meißner

„Muss ich immer gute Noten schreiben?“ Im Interview erklären Yvonne Garbe und Julia Pauli, wieso das Eltern-Kind-Event so wichtig in Arnsberg ist.
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Herdringen. Yvonne Garbe und Julia Pauli machen Kinder stark und sensibilisieren Eltern - im Interview erklären sie das Eltern-Kind-Event in Herdringen.
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