Warum es so wenig Tagesväter gibt

Arnsberg: Ein seltener Job

Warum es so wenig Tagesväter gibt

07.02.2023, 17:14 | Lesedauer: 5 Minuten

Tagesvater Jörg Schröder sitzt am Frühstückstisch, den er von montags bis freitags für fünf Kinder deckt. Anja Jungvogel

Arnsberg. Ist der Job der Tagesmutter nur den Frauen vorbehalten? - Einen Tagesvater gibt es wohl in Arnsberg: Jörg verrät, wie sich das anfühlt.

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Alles, was blinkt, hupt und piepst

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Kochen, füttern, Windeln wechseln

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Einen Burnout will Jörg nicht mehr bekommen

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