Ruhrgebiet.
In Zeiten von Kirchenaustritten haben Trauerredner Konjunktur. Aber wer spricht dann am Grab? In Dortmund lehrt ein Kurs das Abschiednehmen.
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„Wenn nicht mehr die Kirche, wer spricht dann über den Tod?“
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An vier Wochenenden lernen, wie man eine gute Rede schreibt und hält
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