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Gevelsberg: Sterbebegleitung soll keine Frauensache bleiben

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Eine Hospizkraft hält die Hand eines todkranken Menschen. Emmaus in Gevelsberg sucht mehr Männer für ein Ehrenamt als Sterbebegleiter.

Eine Hospizkraft hält die Hand eines todkranken Menschen. Emmaus in Gevelsberg sucht mehr Männer für ein Ehrenamt als Sterbebegleiter.

Foto: Felix Kästle

Gevelsberg.  Im Gevelsberger Hospiz stehen den Sterbenden und Trauernden fast ausschließlich Frauen zur Seite. Warum meiden Männer dieses Ehrenamt?

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Schwieriges Thema für Ehrenamtliche

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