Sexueller Missbrauch

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Sexueller Missbrauch prägt sich für immer in die Seele der Kinder ein.

Sexueller Missbrauch prägt sich für immer in die Seele der Kinder ein.

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Hagen.   Die Hagener Psychologin und Psychotherapeutin Ulrike Giernalczyk hält zwei Vorträge über den sexuellen Missbrauch von Kindern und die Folgen.

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