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Hagen: Alkoholsucht stellt das Familienleben auf den Kopf

Ein Hagener Familienvater erzählt von der Alkoholsucht seiner Lebensgefährtin. Nadine Baukau vom Projekt „Drachenherz“ hilft der Familie.

Ein Hagener Familienvater erzählt von der Alkoholsucht seiner Lebensgefährtin. Nadine Baukau vom Projekt „Drachenherz“ hilft der Familie.

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Hagen .  Die Partnerin des Hageners trank auch während der Schwangerschaft. Sein Sohn leidet jetzt am fetalen Alkoholsyndrom.

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Die Kraft zum Streiten fehlte

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Mutter blieb zwei Wochen weg

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Familienvater wird obdachlos

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Projekt „Drachenherz“ hilft der Familie

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