Frühchen in Hagen

Hagen: Frühchen Milo – das ist seine bewegende Geschichte

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Ann Christin und Mareike Schocke mit Milo. Milo war ein Frühchen und kam neun Wochen zu früh.

Ann Christin und Mareike Schocke mit Milo. Milo war ein Frühchen und kam neun Wochen zu früh.

Foto: Michael Kleinrensing / WP

Hagen.  9 Wochen zu früh – mit 1990 Gramm: Familie Schocke erzählt, was es bedeutet, ein Frühchen zu bekommen. Für Familien gibt es oft Unsicherheiten:

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1990 Gramm nach der Geburt

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18 Tage vor errechnetem Termin wieder zuhause

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Die Umstellung zuhause

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