Hagen: Frühchen Milo – das ist seine bewegende Geschichte

Ann Christin und Mareike Schocke mit Milo. Milo war ein Frühchen und kam neun Wochen zu früh.
Foto: Michael Kleinrensing / WP
Hagen. 9 Wochen zu früh – mit 1990 Gramm: Familie Schocke erzählt, was es bedeutet, ein Frühchen zu bekommen. Für Familien gibt es oft Unsicherheiten:
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1990 Gramm nach der Geburt
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18 Tage vor errechnetem Termin wieder zuhause
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Die Umstellung zuhause
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