Häusliche Gewalt

Hagen: Melina B. vom Partner geschlagen und gedemütigt

Frauen, die Opfer häuslicher Gewalt werden, sind oft traumatisiert. Häufig erfahren sie neben der körperlichen auch seelische Gewalt. Dennoch kostet es die eingeschüchterten Frauen viel Kraft und Mut, sich vom Partner zu trennen.

Frauen, die Opfer häuslicher Gewalt werden, sind oft traumatisiert. Häufig erfahren sie neben der körperlichen auch seelische Gewalt. Dennoch kostet es die eingeschüchterten Frauen viel Kraft und Mut, sich vom Partner zu trennen.

Foto: Maurizio Gambarini / dpa

Hagen.  Melina B. ist von ihrem Lebensgefährten drangsaliert worden - körperlich und seelisch. Im Frauenhaus hat sie Zuflucht gefunden.

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Schon aus Schulzeiten bekannt

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Von Liebe keine Spur mehr

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Flucht ins Frauenhaus

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