Interview der Woche

Missbrauch: „Die wenigsten Kinder denken sich das aus“

Birgit Geis (links) und Brunhilde Bülskämper vom Kinderschutzbund in Wetter.

Birgit Geis (links) und Brunhilde Bülskämper vom Kinderschutzbund in Wetter.

Foto: Klaus Görzel

Wetter.  Der Kinderschutzbund in Wetter ist vorbereitet, muss sich aber nur sehr selten mit sexuellem Missbrauch beschäftigen.

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