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Im SOS-Kinderdorf in Kleve traumatisierten Kindern helfen

Niklas Friedel begleitet als Erzieher Kinder und Jugendliche auf ihren Lebenswegen. Ihn füllt die Arbeit aus.

Niklas Friedel begleitet als Erzieher Kinder und Jugendliche auf ihren Lebenswegen. Ihn füllt die Arbeit aus.

Foto: Katrin Wißen / SOS-Kinderdorf

Kleve.  Niklas Friedel ist seit 2011 Erzieher im SOS-Kinderdorf in Kleve und Teamleiter der Intensivwohngruppe, in der psychisch belastete Kinder leben.

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Die Herkunftsfamilien können sich um die Kinder und Jugendlichen nicht kümmern

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Die Kinder ernst nehmen und ihnen eine Stimme geben

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