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Familien aus Wenden verraten: „Das sagt Ihnen vorher keiner“

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Thomas Bronder (37) aus Wenden ist mit seiner Frau Edit (38) und zwei seiner Kinder.

Thomas Bronder (37) aus Wenden ist mit seiner Frau Edit (38) und zwei seiner Kinder.

Foto: Verena Hallermann

Wenden.  Ein Kind ändert alles im Leben. Doch wie ist es wirklich, Eltern zu sein? Mütter und Väter aus Wenden erzählen, was sie überrascht hat.

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