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Verzweifelt in der Kinderwunschklinik – Eine Frau berichtet

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Yvonne Kuchenbuch-Stahl im Gespräch mit einer Patientin in ihrer Praxis in Rothemühle.

Yvonne Kuchenbuch-Stahl im Gespräch mit einer Patientin in ihrer Praxis in Rothemühle.

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Rothemühle.  Yvonne Kuchenbuch-Stahl ist Kinderwunsch-Expertin in Rothemühle. Sie hat schon vielen Paaren geholfen. Doch nicht immer gibt es ein Happy End.

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Das Gefühl, „nicht gut genug zu sein“

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