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ALS-Patientin im HSK: Das sind die Gedanken einer Sterbenden

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Ute Wegener aus Nuttlar ist an ALS erkrankt. Sie wird daran sterben. Ihr Motto lautet: Wer aufgibt, hat schon verloren.

Ute Wegener aus Nuttlar ist an ALS erkrankt. Sie wird daran sterben. Ihr Motto lautet: Wer aufgibt, hat schon verloren.

Foto: Ilka Trudewind / WP

Nuttlar/Meschede.  Ute Wegener aus Bestwig wird an ALS sterben. Mit uns sprach sie über den Tod, Sterbehilfe und das, was bleibt: Die Liebe zu ihren Söhnen.

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Gedanken zum Tod

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Sterbehilfe in der Schweiz als Option

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Rückblick auf das Leben

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Lied von Udo Lindenberg zu Trauerfeier

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