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Meschederin ändert Leben durch Reden – so tickt Coach Sophia

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Die Meschederin Sophia Herrmann ist Speaker und Coach. Doch was genau steckt da eigentlich hinter?

Die Meschederin Sophia Herrmann ist Speaker und Coach. Doch was genau steckt da eigentlich hinter?

Foto: Justin Bockey / WP

Meschede.  Als Coach und Speaker nutzt Sophia Herrmann all ihre Berufserfahrung. Wie eine 70-Stunden-Woche sie zu ihrem Job führte und was dahinter steckt.

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Meschederin Sophia Herrmann ist Coach und Speaker

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Coaching ist keine Therapie

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0,69 Prozent geändert

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Erfahrung in vielen Bereichen

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Vier Faktoren

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Telefonieren und Laufen

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Nicht zu viel vornehmen

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Hater egal

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Pläne für die Zukunft

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Falsche Weltanschauung

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