Bockum/Arnsberg.
Tatjana Michael (44) wuchs in Meschede auf. Als Kind wurde sie über Jahre sexuell missbraucht. Heute hilft sie anderen Frauen.
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Traumabewältigung
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Warum hat das Kind niemand geschützt
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75 Prozent der Täter stammen aus der Familie oder dem nahen Umfeld
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