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Wenn der Sohn nach einer Stunde in den Armen der Mama stirbt

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Katja Scheer-Trudewind spricht über die Kinder, die sie verloren hat.

Katja Scheer-Trudewind spricht über die Kinder, die sie verloren hat.

Foto: Ute Tolksdorf / WP

Eversberg.  Viele Frauen leiden unter Tot- und Fehlgeburten ein Leben lang. Katja Scheer-Trudewind bricht das Schweigen, weil sie weiß, wie wichtig das ist.

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