Wie mit Schülern über Gewalttat von Freudenberg sprechen?

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Wie mit Schülern über Gewalttat von Freudenberg sprechen?

17.03.2023, 12:13 | Lesedauer: 8 Minuten

Projektwoche zum Thema „Tod und Trauer“ in der Grundschule Eversberg/Wehrstapel.

Foto: Ilka Trudewind / WP

Wehrstapel. Wie denken Kinder über Tod und Trauer? Was macht die Gewalttat in Freudenberg mit Schülern? Zu Besuch an der Grundschule in Wehrstapel (Meschede).

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Xbt fs{åimfo ejf Kvohfo voe Nåedifo ebsýcfs@ Xfmdif Hfgýimf ibcfo tjf@ Xjf hfifo Mfislsåguf ebnju vn@

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Auch Thema in der Projektwoche

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Warum machen Freundinnen das?

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Ehrlichkeit im Umgang mit Trauer und Tod

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Alle Gefühle und Tränen sind ok

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Wenn ich traurig bin

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Große Gedanken

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Was ist das für ein Topf?

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Überzeugungsarbeit vor der ersten Projektwoche

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Tipps für Eltern

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Trauergruppe für Kinder

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