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Bad Laasphe: Bestatter über Trauerfeiern in Corona-Zeiten

Trauerfeiern finden derzeit nur im kleinen Familienkreis statt. Für die Hinterbliebenen ist es nicht immer einfach, Freunden des Verstorbenen dies mitzuteilen.

Trauerfeiern finden derzeit nur im kleinen Familienkreis statt. Für die Hinterbliebenen ist es nicht immer einfach, Freunden des Verstorbenen dies mitzuteilen.

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Feudingen.  Keine tröstende Umarmung, kein Händeschütteln: Auch Bestatter in Wittgenstein müssen in Zeiten von Corona Abstand halten – nicht immer einfach.

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