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Experte verrät: Wie wir Krisen im Leben besser meistern

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Ob gesellschaftliche Probleme oder persönliche Herausforderungen: In seinem neuen Buch erklärt Atilla Albert „9 Wahrheiten, die durchs Leben tragen“.

Ob gesellschaftliche Probleme oder persönliche Herausforderungen: In seinem neuen Buch erklärt Atilla Albert „9 Wahrheiten, die durchs Leben tragen“.

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Essen.  Corona, Klimawandel oder Krieg: Wie können wir mit Krisen im Leben besser umgehen? Das verrät Coach und Autor Atilla Albert in seinem neuen Buch.

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