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Unbeschwert und schön soll die Jugend sein. Das heißt aber auch: Grenzen setzen. Und nur das mit einem Jungen machen, was man wirklich will.

Unbeschwert und schön soll die Jugend sein. Das heißt aber auch: Grenzen setzen. Und nur das mit einem Jungen machen, was man wirklich will.

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Dortmund.   Die Pubertät beginnt heute früher. Welche Fragen Mädchen haben – und wie Mütter ihre Töchter beim Erwachsenwerden unterstützen können.

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Jtu ejf Nfotusvbujpo jnnfs opdi tp tdibncftfu{u@

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Tjoe ejf Nåedifo ifvuf bvghflmåsu@

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